POSITIVE REASONS TO WAIT
等待的正面效果
1. Abstinence protects you from both the fear of and the consequences of sexually transmitted diseases (STD‘s).
节制使你免于经受对性传染疾病的恐惧和后果。
2. Abstinence frees you from the fear and consequences of pregnancy.
节制使你免于经受怀孕的恐慌和后果。
3. Abstinence frees you from the dangers of various birth control methods.
节制使你免于面对采用各种避孕手段的危险之中。
4. Abstinence frees you from the trauma of abortion.
节制使你免受流产的痛苦。
5. Abstinence protects you from sexual addiction.
节制使你免于沉溺于性 。
6. Abstinence frees you from the pressure to get married before you are ready.
节制使你免于面对没做好准备就结婚的压力。
7. Abstinence frees you from being valued on a performance basis.
节制使你不必因性行为而被人评价。
8. Abstinence protects you from comparison later in marriage.
节制使你免于在婚后被拿来对比。
9. Abstinence protects your most delicate sex organ-your mind.
节制可以保护你最敏感的性器官— —情绪。
10. Abstinence protects you from feelings that can mislead you.
节制可以使你摆脱误导你的感情。
11. Abstinence protects you from sustaining "bad" relationships.
节制使你免于在不好的关系中挣扎。
12. Abstinence frees you from the trauma of having to give up your baby for adoption.
节制使你免于经受因流产而放弃自己孩子的打击。
13. Abstinence helps you avoid deep scars.
节制帮你避免留下深深的伤疤。
14. Abstinence provides a basis of trust.
节制提供了信任的基础。
15. Abstinence helps you develop respect for life.
节制帮助你懂得尊重生活。
16. Abstinence frees you to focus your energy on establishing and realizing life goals.
节制使你能专心去建立并实现生活目标。
17. Abstinence gives freedom from guilt.
节制使人从犯罪一般的不安与愧疚中解脱出来。
18. Abstinence helps develop unselfish sensitivity.
节制有助于培养不自私的敏感性。
19. Abstinence enhances true communication in a relationship.
节制在关系中加强了真正意义上的沟通。
20. Abstinence helps build patience and self-control.
节制有助于培养耐心和自制能力。
21. Abstinence helps to enhance the special relationship found only in marriage.
节制有助于今后加强婚姻中的特殊关系基础。
22. Abstinence helps develop positive principles of relational growth.
节制有助于强化关系发展中的积极原则。
23. Abstinence provides freedom to enjoy being a young person.
节制提供了享受作年轻人的自由。
24. Abstinence provides one of the greatest gifts of true love-virginity.
节制提供了真爱的最好礼物之一 — —贞操。
25. Abstinence helps increase self-esteem.
节制有助于提高自尊。
26. Abstinence can be a good "test" of love.
节制可以是爱情的一个很好的“试卷”。
27. Abstinence can make you a better lover.
节制可以使你成为一个更好的爱人。
28. Abstinence can be an expression of emotional integrity.
节制可以成为纯洁感情的表达。
